Anastasia character shows some of the flaws that we as females have we are our own worse critics, because we have to change some of our ways to make somebody happy, but we forget that the person that is with us loves us regardless of our virtues and flaws, but when we think we have a good partner in our lives there is something wrong with us, or we need to change to make our partners happy. Our partners are just happy to be with us, and love us regardless of anything else. We focus to much on the negative aspects of our physical appearances, because of what society lays out for us. I believe in live the way you want to leave, why live in other people's perspective on the way they think you should be? We are not here to please other's in the sense to let them control our lives and make us decide our life. The people that truly love the genuine you will love you regardless of anything. We all have our ying and yang moments, but don't judge yourself, because of the negative stuff that has happen in your life or the negative stuff you decided to do. The negative stuff is a learning tool to help us not to make it again or grow from it, but don't dwell it on it. Life is borrowed time, and we have to soak the juice of life in the Good way, let's not dwell in if I am fat, should I eat this, I am not beautiful, I am too skinny, or whatever else negative you have to say about yourself. We are beautiful with our imperfections, and remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I know some people say that is what ugly girls say, but who is much uglier the person seeing beyond the physical appearance of the person and getting to know that person, or the person that prefers to dwell on just the physical, somebody is going to be one lonely person. External Beauty can go so far, it is our soul that lives with us that shows our true beauty. Loving this book by the way I highly recommend it. Anastasia in this story has also to deal with her own demons dealing with the fact that this gorgeous man loves her beyond anything and she belittles herself, because she thinks that she is not enough for him. So, truly is Christian the only one with issues or shall we say Anastasia you need to go see Dr. Flynn as well.
