Saturday, May 28, 2016

Narcissism in social media

While the world wide way has open our society into new horizons, it has also amplified to make us see how narcissist some individuals can me to be posting all the time their issues with people or with the world in general. When is it time to realize that Facebook or any type of social media is not your private journal, because the world is looking at it, and those that are sheep will believe everywhere you say. When do we stop needing attention from other people to state our issues with our personal life or other people in our lives. I'm not saying don't post items, but when we have certain issues let's face it head on and not share with the world with the world truly not knowing the circumstances of situations in your life. Are we really so desperate for approval by other people of our actions or behavior? I was brought up that if you have an issue with yourself or others to deal with it in appropriate manner not blast it on Facebook or any other type of social media, because that states that your looking either for sheep that well fan your egos to boost or just to make you feel that is right that you write certain things, or are you just seeking attention for pity? Ask yourself that.Either way you devalue yourself for playing childish games. In this world we deal with as adults keeping our lives private and only share with people that are truly intimate or close friends why does the world need to know about negative situations going on in your life or with certain individuals. I might not know what people that write down their issues with society or individuals, but I do believe with every fiber of my being is that we have turned into a very narcissistic society to write down every thing that is going in our lives even make our social media accounts our journals where we need to feel that instant gratification of acceptance or needing an entourage of saying stuff to fill your ego. This is my own personal opinion regarding this topic, or you know what create a blog writing all your frustration and share with individuals that will tell you their opinion  to your face. When somebody cares about you they will tell you it is wrong to put stuff on the web of what is going on in your life. Value yourself more and deal with situations in the real world where we deal with our situations in our lives head on.