Heard from so many guys, "oh, but she is too clingy." "Really why do you think she is clingy?" I would like a guy to give me a description of what they think is a clingy behavior? Is it that the woman you are with shows to much emotion, that you want her to show less? Or is it that the woman wants to make you happy and tries to bend over backwards to make you happy? I had a conversation with one of my good friends and we were talking about a person in my life that used that word referring to a girl he was in a relationship with. I know there are some women out there that are unstable, but we are talking about women that show their emotions and they want to show their significant other how much they love them. Sometimes, men make women feel that they are going crazy for showing all those emotions and how happy that person makes them feel, but they confuse it with clingness. So, should a guy devalue on the way the woman tries to show her affection by calling her clingy, or tell her thank you for loving me the way you do? I just would like to understand what men consider clingness in a woman.
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